A learning disability may seem normal to everybody. Most children with particular learning problems appear to have a higher risk of developing additional mental health issues. These children also get a diagnosis of depression and anxiety. Why is that? Let us move closer to some of the reasons why learning disability often gets connected with mental illness.
It Makes Children Believe That Isolation Is The Best Option
If you have not noticed, the majority of children with a learning disability are often unapproachable. It is not because they are naturally irritable or something, but because they are anxious about everything. There is this mentality that when people figure out that they have a learning problem, these kids quickly feel uneasy. They get scared of criticism and judgment. They become afraid to be around people because somehow they knew they would become the center of unfortunate events. So for them to be able to protect themselves from emotional or physical harm, they tend to isolate themselves. Sadly, these kids can only cling to isolation because they understand how mean and unreasonable most people can be. The emotional and mental torture that others give these kids makes them embrace the entirety of being alone.
It Becomes The Primary Reason For Bullying
For those kids with a learning disability, everyday social interaction is a struggle. There is too much verbal, emotional, and mental harassment that these kids with learning disabilities face every day from other people. There is always the risk of getting bullied by other kids because of the intellectual, physical, and mental incapacity. There is a vast amount of pressure that these kids have to endure only to avoid getting harmed. Of course, you can rest assure them that not all people are like that. There are still a couple of individuals who are more than willing to be friends with them despite their obvious difference from others. However, these kids with a learning disability are sensitive enough to excuse the act of bullying. They will never see it as anything positive but an action that always intends to harm them physically, emotionally, and mentally.
It Makes Children Force To Hide Their Feelings
The saddest part of dealing with kids’ emotional dilemmas is the incapability of knowing where and what hurts them. Most of the time, it seems pretty easy to identify why children feel sad and lonely. However, with the presence of a learning disability, kids are often untrue with their feelings. They will tell you that everything is okay, even if you knew it isn’t. They try to make faces and laugh at themselves only to avoid the harshness of other people’s comments about their condition. In some unfortunate situations, they lie to themselves only to stay out of the public’s eyes. But deep inside, these kids emotionally suffer. They often wonder why they tend to be unusual than others. You may not hear them ask or complain about it. But somehow, they knew they are different compared to the majority of kids around them. It is just that they feel embarrassed to tell the world that they are somehow struggling so hard of doing things that are quite easy for others.
It Makes Them Think That They Are Undeserving
A learning disability impacts a lot of kids’ aspects. There is a struggle with social interaction as some children might have a hearing or visual problem. Then there is also the intellectual incapacity that often results to slow comprehension. Also, there are cognitive and behavioral issues that probably come from an overall deterioration of the kids’ wellbeing. With that said, these unfortunate things that take a portion of children’s life make them feel undeserving. They seem to view their disability as a valid reason for their unworthiness. That mentality becomes excruciating and deteriorating because it gets accompanied by embarrassment and humiliation. It makes children feel bad about themselves for not being able to act normal like the others. And over time, emotional and mental torture takes away the children’s motivation to self-love and self-improve.
Children are way too unpredictable. They act on things based on their judgments, and sometimes they forget to incorporate logic to their response. You can’t blame them, though, because it is their nature. But with those kids with a learning disability, everything about their words and actions needs a definite moment. Expressing themselves would need time so they can think about what they are about to say. There is the pressure of wanting to be normal and not being laughed at.
It is unfortunate that most people do not genuinely want to talk about children’s learning disabilities. But if you know someone struggling with the condition, please make him or her feel that the learning disability is not a thing that defines them. Please do assure the kids that being different is entirely okay.